Thursday, November 28, 2013
Monday, November 25, 2013
"There is often a taboo linked to miscarriage -- one that shouldn’t be there. Women don’t want to talk about their miscarriage experience for many reasons. Usually because it’s a personal and painful experience, and there is often self-blame involved (plus other people can be insensitive)."
Saturday, November 23, 2013
Falling in love has the same neurological effects with a cocaine high. In both of these cases, an excess of dopamine floods the brain. The more dopamine, the more “on a high” you feel. This is the exact same process that comes with a cocaine high.
Thursday, November 21, 2013
Wednesday, November 20, 2013
Monday, November 18, 2013
Sunday, November 17, 2013
Q: I have a boyfriend for one and a half years and from the start was strongly attracted to him and loved him deeply. The main issue was his lack of emotional intimacy and communication. I was always open, honest and patient with him, while he always seemed too afraid to let me really know him.
A: People who came from abusive or abandoning relations usually only know dysfunction. They have this tendency to find partners who are ambivalent and hostile; these people fear and reject closeness in spite of their dependent longings. Additionally, the emotional empathy a young girl was not able to get from a critical/withholding parent, such as approval, she usually tries to draw out from a distant-needy partner. This kind of a distant or detached partner comes with challenge to prove her worthiness as a desirable woman who can get the love of the elusive object.
Saturday, November 16, 2013
Thursday, November 14, 2013
Tuesday, November 12, 2013
This article is so timely. I actually know someone who's going through something terribly heartbreaking at the moment. Her boyfriend of 3 years, whom she shared a very loving and intimate relationship with, suddenly left her to work overseas. She didn't know he had been planning to do this for several months already. And what's devastating is he never said goodbye, not a single word. She's been trying to reach him via social media, but to no avail. He treats her like a stranger now. She's still in disbelief at the moment.
I let her read this post, it got her crying. Even though she has been wronged, she is still confident she will someday find happiness again.
"Only God could do something that amazing. My message is: Never to stop believing. You never know when, where, or how God will bring that one person into your life that will completely change everything."
Monday, November 11, 2013
Sunday, November 10, 2013
Here's an inspiring song from Taio Cruz. It's amazing how much confidence it can give you that no matter how low you feel right now, someday, you'll have it good. Someday, you will heal again. One day, you will feel again.