Here are some of the careless and thoughtless actions and behaviors that might be effin' up the relationship:
1. You zero in on the bad
It's okay to call out your guy on his faults, but a little acknowledgement of the good stuff goes a long way.
2. You are hooked on the blame game
Instead of chalking up your guy's shortcomings, look at the big picture. You'll get where he's coming from when you know he does things he does for a reason.
3. You always whine about him to your friends
It's not a mortal sin to confide in your closest friends about your problems with your guy, but constantly ruining his reputation makes him feel betrayed and chips away at your relationship.
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Wednesday, July 31, 2013
Monday, July 29, 2013
He Needs Breathing Room
Your guy might feel smothered because of your consecutive weekends together. These are telltale signs your man is craving some time apart:
1. He ducks out all afternoon just to play basketball and bask in testosterone with his guy friends.
2. He disconnects from you by going online or playing a computer game for hours on end.
3. He frees up his night by blurting out "I'm hanging at the bar with the boys."
1. He ducks out all afternoon just to play basketball and bask in testosterone with his guy friends.
2. He disconnects from you by going online or playing a computer game for hours on end.
3. He frees up his night by blurting out "I'm hanging at the bar with the boys."
Friday, July 26, 2013
25 Things You Should Know About Love
We've all been in love, at one point or another. Click on the link above and read about some things you should know about love. :)
Wednesday, July 24, 2013
Girls' Most Annoying Lines
Here are some of the most annoying lines that girls blurt out and guys have to read between during couple fights:
Monday, July 22, 2013
When The One You Love Loves Someone Else
Labels:
breakup,
heartache,
heartbreak,
love,
third party
Sunday, July 21, 2013
Q&A: My boyfriend is a different person around his friends. Is this bad?
Q: My boyfriend is a different person around his friends. He's sensitive and sweet to me, but crude around buddies. Is this bad?
A: What he shows you when you're alone is himself letting his guard down. When he's out with friends, he's likely to indulge in his male purely male side. Long story short, he's a total dude who's not afraid to show his emotions. However, if he did something that crossed the line like making derogatory comments about other women, just as long as he doesn't get the feeling that you're taking control of his guy time, he will be willing to talk about it.
A: What he shows you when you're alone is himself letting his guard down. When he's out with friends, he's likely to indulge in his male purely male side. Long story short, he's a total dude who's not afraid to show his emotions. However, if he did something that crossed the line like making derogatory comments about other women, just as long as he doesn't get the feeling that you're taking control of his guy time, he will be willing to talk about it.
Monday, July 15, 2013
Long Distance Relationships Do's and Dont's
Saturday, July 13, 2013
Dating Myths Exposed
There are dating rules that act like they are gospel truths, when in fact, they should be kicked to the curb.
Myth: "If I'm destined to be in a relationship, then the universe/God/fate will make it happen."
Fact: If you are able to make your own career, then you can make your own love story. Make it happen.
Myth: Only slutty girls flirt.
Fact: You're just having fun, you're not out to snare every guy.
Myth: Men should always make the first move, considering they like the thrill of the chase.
Fact: Before a guy makes a move, he needs a subtle hint that he won't be rejected right then and there. Smile.
Myth: A girl must play hard to get at all times.
Fact: Play hard to get, not hard to get to know.
Myth: "If I'm destined to be in a relationship, then the universe/God/fate will make it happen."
Fact: If you are able to make your own career, then you can make your own love story. Make it happen.
Myth: Only slutty girls flirt.
Fact: You're just having fun, you're not out to snare every guy.
Myth: Men should always make the first move, considering they like the thrill of the chase.
Fact: Before a guy makes a move, he needs a subtle hint that he won't be rejected right then and there. Smile.
Myth: A girl must play hard to get at all times.
Fact: Play hard to get, not hard to get to know.
Friday, July 12, 2013
Wednesday, July 10, 2013
Why Your Guy Wants You to Like His Friends
It’s a bummer if a girlfriend does not get along with her
guy’s friends. Imagine if a girl constantly gets pissed with her guy’s buddies
whom he has known forever, the ones he knows he can rely on during tough times,
the ones he has shared precious moments with. If you’re this type of
girlfriend, heed these tips:
1. Hang out with them
You need not be a diehard NBA fan or a beer pong expert just to be with your guy’s best friends, just get a feel of their vibe, and try being around them. Your guy’s friends are an important part of his life. More to these, if they approve of you, they are highly likely to keep you involved and in the know.
2. Be Aware That They Know Everything
If you can’t make your guy spill more about himself, you can ask your guy’s friends. Just stay away from touchy topics like ex-girlfriends and sexual escapades.
1. Hang out with them
You need not be a diehard NBA fan or a beer pong expert just to be with your guy’s best friends, just get a feel of their vibe, and try being around them. Your guy’s friends are an important part of his life. More to these, if they approve of you, they are highly likely to keep you involved and in the know.
2. Be Aware That They Know Everything
If you can’t make your guy spill more about himself, you can ask your guy’s friends. Just stay away from touchy topics like ex-girlfriends and sexual escapades.
3. They Can Be Your Extra Ears
When the shit hits the fan and things get rocky between you and your guy, you can have them as extra set of ears to hear you out.
4. Two Thumbs Up
Make the effort to be approved of by your man’s buddies
since their opinion is just as important as your friends’. If you really care
about your guy, you can cross that bridge.
Tuesday, July 2, 2013
5 Celebrity Breakup Quotes to Mend Your Broken Heart
You just broke up with your boyfriends,
and it stings like hell. Here’s a few fierce advice from the likes of Marilyn
Monroe and Elizabeth Taylor! Prepare to add these inspirational celebrity
breakup quotes to your moving-on program!
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